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		<title>ARE YOU GUILTY OF RUSHING THE LEADERSHIP PROCESS?</title>
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				<description><![CDATA[Overnight Success Is The Results Of Intentional Daily Grind. <p>Leadership development doesn&#8217;t happen overnight, it&#8217;s developed over a lifetime. Let that sink in. It&#8217;s easy to be misled when you see the success of someone today, not knowing what they went through yesterday. That&#8217;s because leadership is a daily process, it&#8217;s not accomplished in a day. Many of us are guilty of rushing the [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em id="gnt_postsubtitle" style="color:#9b9b9b;font-family:'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:1.3em;line-height:1.2em;font-weight:normal;font-style:italic;">Overnight Success Is The Results Of Intentional Daily Grind</em></p> <p>Leadership development doesn&#8217;t happen overnight, it&#8217;s developed over a lifetime. Let that sink in. It&#8217;s easy to be misled when you see the success of someone today, not knowing what they went through yesterday. That&#8217;s because leadership is a daily <em>process</em>, it&#8217;s not accomplished in a day.</p><a href="http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/"><img width="760" height="760" src="http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-760x760.png" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="Process" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-760x760.png 760w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-150x150.png 150w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-300x300.png 300w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-768x768.png 768w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-1024x1024.png 1024w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-35x35.png 35w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-400x400.png 400w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-82x82.png 82w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804-600x600.png 600w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/IMG_3804.png 1080w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /></a>
<p>Many of us are guilty of rushing the process. I know I am guilty of wanting tomorrow&#8217;s results today, without going through yesterday&#8217;s grind to get there. Are you guilty of rushing the leadership process?<span id="more-645"></span></p>
<h4>Overnight Success</h4>
<p>There are no shortcuts in leadership. You have to put in the work to reap the success. You have to be willing to invest in yourself if you desire to add value to others.</p>
<p>It takes time, to grow as a leader. Unfortunately, most people aren&#8217;t willing to go through the process but still want instant results.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to understand that overnight success doesn&#8217;t happen overnight. Overnight success is the result of intentional daily grind.</p>
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<p><em>Overnight success is the result of intentional daily grind.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Overnight+success+is+the+result+of+intentional+daily+grind.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Want to be a great leader? You have to be willing to sacrifice, commit and invest the time and effort it will take to develop as a leader.  If you don&#8217;t sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice.</p>
<p>I want to share with you three concepts to help you embrace the process as you grow as a leader. As the saying goes, you have to pay the cost to be the boss. What you do on a consistent and disciplined basis will lead to your success.</p>
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<p><em>If you don&#8217;t sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice. -Unknown</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=If+you+don%27t+sacrifice+for+what+you+want%2C+what+you+want+becomes+the+sacrifice.+-Unknown&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>Slow Cook</h3>
<p>The problem today is that too many leaders want to be microwaved and not slowed cooked. Leadership development is more like a crock pot than a microwave.</p>
<p>You have to be willing to marinate today so you can sizzle tomorrow. The longer you develop, the more prepared you will be to lead. A great leader is never done developing. You&#8217;re always looking for ways to get better.</p>
<p>Recently my wife purchased a Kitchen Aid Classic Mixer for my Anniversary present, to satisfy my new baking hobby. I&#8217;ve gotten pretty good at baking cakes but I didn&#8217;t start off that way. I had a tendency of taking the cake out before it was done baking (rushing).</p>
<p>If you have baked a cake before, you know that to test and see if it&#8217;s ready you stick a fork in it. It smelled ready, it even looked ready but it wasn&#8217;t. That&#8217;s because you can look like your ready on the outside but on the inside your not.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t want to be taken out of the oven to early. When those you lead stick you with their forks, you want to make sure that what comes out of you adds value and doesn&#8217;t cause a mess.</p>
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<p><em>Leadership development is more like a crock pot than a microwave.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Leadership+development+is+more+like+a+crock+pot+than+a+microwave.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>Law of Process</h3>
<p>In his best-selling book, &#8220;<a href="http://amzn.to/2lRJW77"><em>The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership</em></a>&#8220;, John Maxwell in The Law of Process states, “Leadership develops daily, not in a day.” He observed that “Champions don’t become champions in the ring, they are merely recognized there.”</p>
<p>Your daily routine, daily preparations will reveal if you are rushing the leadership process. You can have all the talent and potential in the world but if you cheat the process in the dark, you will get exposed under the lights.</p>
<p>When your time comes, you have to be ready to lead. Continuously commit to investing in your learning. A leaders learning never ends, it&#8217;s an ongoing process. Strive to get better each day.</p>
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<p><em>Leadership develops daily, not in a day. -John Maxwell</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Leadership+develops+daily%2C+not+in+a+day.+-John+Maxwell&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>Seed Time Harvest</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m a systems guy and God has given us the seed time &amp; harvest system that produces (Gen 8:22). A seed is designed to multiply, the harvest is always greater than the seed &amp; there is no harvest without a seed.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not just talking about corn, apples &amp; watermelons. This applies to leadership as well. A farmer doesn&#8217;t sow a seed and reap his harvest the next day; it takes time then the harvest. As a leader, you sow seeds of sacrifices today so in time you can reap harvests of success tomorrow.</p>
<p>It takes a long period of time to lead well. You must be faithful in your daily interactions with those you lead and investing daily in yourself. Patience is a virtue, don&#8217;t rush the seeds you have sown.</p>
<p>Self-discipline and perseverance are qualities you will have to sow to resist the urge to rush the process. Your harvest is waiting on the other side of the time it will require for you to develop, prepare, train, and mature into the leader you are called to be.</p>
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<p><em>A leader sows seeds of sacrifices today, to reap harvests of success tomorrow.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=A+leader+sows+seeds+of+sacrifices+today%2C+to+reap+harvests+of+success+tomorrow.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/guilty-rushing-leadership-process/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Remember there are no shortcuts to leadership. A leader is in it for the long haul, not shortcuts. The longer you develop in the leadership crock pot the more prepared you will be to lead. Leadership develops daily, not in a day.</p>
<p>Trust the process, invest in yourself and sow seeds of sacrifice today to reap success tomorrow. Leadership doesn&#8217;t develop overnight. It&#8217;s developed throughout life. Enjoy the journey!</p>
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		<title>WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO BE AN INFLUENTIAL LEADER</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2017 11:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Messam</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>Without influence, it’s next to impossible to lead others. If you can get people to follow you not due to your title alone but because you have earned it; you&#8217;ve achieved the title of an influential leader.  As mentioned in a previous post, leadership isn&#8217;t based on position or fancy titles; leadership is influence. A [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Without influence, it’s next to impossible to lead others. If you can get people to follow you not due to your title alone but because you have earned it; you&#8217;ve achieved the title of an influential leader. </span></p><a href="http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/"><img width="760" height="290" src="http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-760x290.jpg" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="Influential" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-760x290.jpg 760w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-300x115.jpg 300w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-768x293.jpg 768w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-1024x391.jpg 1024w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-518x198.jpg 518w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-82x31.jpg 82w, http://stevemessam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Influence_internal-600x229.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /></a>
<p><span id="more-608"></span>As mentioned in a previous post, <a href="http://stevemessam.com/influence-important-thing-leaders/"><em>leadership isn&#8217;t based on position or fancy titles; leadership is influence</em></a>. A title might buy you a little time but if you don&#8217;t earn their respect and trust, they won&#8217;t follow.</p>
<p>Influence is the capacity to have an effect on the <strong><em>character</em></strong>, <em><strong>development</strong></em>, or <em><strong>behavior</strong></em> of someone. The problem with only using a position or title to justify leadership is its leverage is primarily over the <em>behavior,</em> and not necessarily the character and development of others.</p>
<p>For example, in a boss &#8211; employee relationship, the subordinate will be cooperative when their income/livelihood is at stake. This is considered <a href="http://www.maurilioamorim.com/2011/06/the-problem-with-positional-leadership/"><em>positional leadership</em></a>. Positional leadership use position to prove leadership.</p>
<h5>Relational Leadership vs Positional Leadership</h5>
<p>Positional leadership runs into hard times working in a voluntary organization. I have seen this first hand serving or volunteering in churches or community organizations. Whenever there was a leader throwing their title around to affect behavior, they faced resistance almost everytime.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to command something that you haven&#8217;t earned. I love how Maurilio Amorim puts it, &#8220;Positional leadership is given, while influential is earned.&#8221;</p>
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<p><em>Positional leadership is given, while influential is earned. -Maurilio Amorim</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Positional+leadership+is+given%2C+while+influential+is+earned.+-Maurilio+Amorim&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Followers in voluntary organizations are there because they &#8220;want&#8221; to not because the &#8220;have&#8221; to. If a leader doesn&#8217;t have leverage &#8211; or influence &#8211; their title is ineffective. The effective leaders in this type of environment master relational (influential) leadership.</p>
<p>Influential leadership isn&#8217;t pushing or pulling instead it&#8217;s one of relational connection and support that develops a motivated and inspired team driven by a trusted leader. People follow who they trust, not necessarily who they must.</p>
<p>As you grow as a leader, it&#8217;s important that you understand the difference between positional and relational leadership. Look at this way, with positional leadership income is the currency. Relational leadership, influence is the currency.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at 3 ways you can earn your influential currency to effect the character, development, and behavior of those you lead.</p>
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<p><em>With positional leadership, income is currency. Relational leadership, influence is currency.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=With+positional+leadership%2C+income+is+currency.+Relational+leadership%2C+influence+is+currency.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #1b75bb;">3 Ways To Earn Influence As A Leader</span></h2>
<h3>1. Add Value</h3>
<p>If you don&#8217;t value people you shouldn&#8217;t be leading them. One true sign that you value those you lead is your willingness and ability to add value to them. However, we only value others to the degree we value ourselves.</p>
<p>Have you noticed that we don&#8217;t see people as they are but as we are? Your willingness to develop, and invest in yourself by reading posts like this so you can add value to others, is a step in the right direction.</p>
<p>Leadership expert, John Maxwell has said, &#8220;when you value people, you have a deeper desire to connect with them than correct them.&#8221; He also said that the first step of leadership is adding value to people.</p>
<p>As a leader, you add value by serving others. Are you more focus on others serving you are you serving them? The more you add value to them, the more they follow you.</p>
<p><strong><em>Action: Ask yourself each day, &#8220;How can I add value to others today?&#8221;</em></strong></p>
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<p><em>The 1st step of leadership is adding value to people. -John Maxwell</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=The+1st+step+of+leadership+is+adding+value+to+people.+-John+Maxwell&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>2. Be Consistent</h3>
<p>If you say you&#8217;re going to do something, do it. If you say you&#8217;re going to be somewhere, be there. Consistency is a must as you build influence and grow as an influential leader.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to realize that consistency isn&#8217;t a one and done thing; it&#8217;s a pattern. Consistency establishes your reputation as a leader. It&#8217;s hard to demand accountability from others if they can&#8217;t expect the same from you.</p>
<p>People buy into the leader when they can count on that leader. Can those you lead count on you? Consistency is an underrated word that plays a supersized role in your ability to be an influential leader.</p>
<p>You have to be consistent as a leader. Be reliable. The more consistent you are with those you lead, the more willing they will be in following you.</p>
<p><em><strong>Action: Identify an area where you can be more consistent as a leader and work on it for the next 3 months.</strong></em></p>
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<p><em>Consistency is an underrated word that plays a supersized role in your ability to be an influential leader.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Consistency+is+an+underrated+word+that+plays+a+supersized+role+in+your+ability+to+be+an+influential+leader.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>3. Connect</h3>
<p>The key to connecting with those you lead is to listen to them. People truly don&#8217;t care about what you know until they know that you care. You have to connect with them emotionally before you can move them physically.</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed how some people have their guards up when you try to (in your mind) give advice and help them? It&#8217;s because you haven&#8217;t connected with them yet. They are still trying to figure out your motives, your intentions before they let you in.</p>
<p>People won&#8217;t go along with you until they can get along with you, said so brilliantly by John Maxwell. Therefore, seek common ground with those you lead before you seek higher ground.</p>
<p>Relationships are a foundation of successful leadership. It&#8217;s the bedrock to relational leadership. As the leader, it&#8217;s your responsibility to take the initiative in connecting with those you lead.</p>
<p>Every time you connect with those you lead is an opportunity to increase your influence with them. Get to know them intimately if you desire to move them outwardly.</p>
<p><em><strong>Action: Write down three individuals you need to connect with more and be intentional to do so over the next few months.</strong></em></p>
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<p><em>Find common ground with those you lead before seeking higher ground.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Find+common+ground+with+those+you+lead+before+seeking+higher+ground.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/need-know-influential-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Remember, influence is the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone. Your title might impact their behavior but it&#8217;s your relationship that will influence all three. True leadership can&#8217;t be given, it must be earned.</p>
<p>You earn it by adding value to those you lead, being consistent in how you lead, and connecting intentionally with those you lead. You can do it!</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"> <em><strong>What is one area you can be more consistent as a leader? Please comment below. </strong></em></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Mar 2017 11:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[How Having A Big Picture Perspective Leads To Success. <p>It amazes me how some people can actually see the same thing physically but have a different perspective on it mentally. I believe it&#8217;s because there&#8217;s a difference between our eyesight and our mindsight. What you see (vision), plays a key role in your success. When you think about vision, think about these two definitions. [&#8230;]</p>
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<p><span id="more-564"></span>When you think about vision, think about these two definitions. The first one is the sense of being able to use your eyes to see &#8211; eyesight.  The second definition is to envision/anticipate that which will or may come to be &#8211; mindsight.</p>
<p>One you can actually see with your physical eyes, the other you can see with your mental eyes. It&#8217;s not really here yet but you can picture it, you can envision it with you mental eyes.</p>
<p>Having the right perspective on both sights &#8211; your mindsight and your eyesight &#8211; will help you achieve your goals as well as give you the motivation to keep things in proper perspective and not sweat the small stuff.</p>
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<p><em>Don&#8217;t let what you see with you eyes, discourage you from pursuing what you see with your mind.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Don%27t+let+what+you+see+with+you+eyes%2C+discourage+you+from+pursuing+what+you+see+with+your+mind.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/surprising-power-mindsight/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #1b75bb;">3 Ways Big Picture Perspective Leads To Success</span></h2>
<h3>1. See It</h3>
<p>Our first point is, see it. You have to see the big picture with your mind, regardless of what you see with your eyes. This is why some people see the same thing physically but have different perspective mentally. Consider this for example.</p>
<p>You have three workers all doing the same job, constructing a building. Each worker was asked the same question, &#8220;What is that you&#8217;re building?&#8221; Worker one responded by saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m laying bricks on top of each other, that&#8217;s my job.&#8221;</p>
<p>Worker number two responded, &#8220;I&#8217;m building a wall.&#8221; He&#8217;s actually laying bricks, but his perspective isn&#8217;t laying bricks but building a wall.</p>
<p>Finally, worker number three answered, &#8220;I&#8217;m building a cathedral.&#8221; Here he is laying the same bricks as the others but his perspective is seeing a cathedral.</p>
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<p><em>You have to see the big picture with your mind, regardless of what you see with your eyes.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=You+have+to+see+the+big+picture+with+your+mind%2C+regardless+of+what+you+see+with+your+eyes.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/surprising-power-mindsight/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h4><strong>Mindsight vs Eyesight</strong></h4>
<p>Let’s break down this mindsight versus eyesight or big picture perspective versus small picture perspective.</p>
<p>Your eyesight, or small picture perspective, is driven by things that are happening around you or outside of you, your outer-self. Your mindsight, big picture perspective, that’s driven by what’s inside of you, your inner-self.</p>
<p>Eyesight sees the raw materials, it sees the lumber, cement, nails, hammer, all of the raw materials. Your mindsight sees the finished product, it see the cathedral, it sees your dream home. Mindsight is your ability to see the finished product mentally before you can see it physically.</p>
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<p><em>Mindsight is your ability to see the finished product mentally before you can see it physically.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Mindsight+is+your+ability+to+see+the+finished+product+mentally+before+you+can+see+it+physically.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/surprising-power-mindsight/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Just in case you didn&#8217;t know, you have God-given raw materials on the inside of you. If you see things from the proper perspective you can turn what may seem like broken pieces (eyesight) to your masterpiece (mindsight).</p>
<p>But, how do you get what you see physically with your eyesight to align with what you see mentally with your mindsight?</p>
<h3>2. Write It</h3>
<p>Point number two is to write it. You have to capture the vision and keep it up front. Writing down your vision helps you bridge your mindsight (mental vision) to your eyesight (physical vision).</p>
<p>As a Wisdom Chaser, I&#8217;m chasing wisdom from all places, whether it&#8217;s on social media, books, movies, interactions, you name it. One book I keep in heavy rotation when it comes to wisdom is the Bible.</p>
<p>Over 2,500 years ago there was a Hebrew prophet by the name of Habakkuk, who said to &#8220;write the vision, make it plain on tablets.&#8221; You didn&#8217;t know folks had iPads back then&#8230;just kidding, but back then they had these tablets which were stones that they wrote words on.</p>
<h4><strong>Physical Reminder</strong></h4>
<p>You need to write down your visions. Put them in places that you see routinely like your bathroom mirror, car dashboard or maybe on the refrigerator. It&#8217;s always great to have that physical reminder to reinforce your vision.</p>
<p>Maybe you need a different type of physical reminder other than words like many athletes use, pictures. Use visual reminders or visual metaphors, like a picture of a house, a car, or an object that serves as a reminder of what you&#8217;re working hard for.</p>
<p>Having that visual reminder, writing down your vision is going to help you stay focused and not sweat the small things, to help you bridge that mindsight (mental vision) to your eyesight (physical vision).</p>
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<p><em>Writing down your vision helps you bridge your mindsight (mental vision) to your eyesight (physical vision).</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Writing+down+your+vision+helps+you+bridge+your+mindsight+%28mental+vision%29+to+your+eyesight+%28physical+vision%29.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/surprising-power-mindsight/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>So you wrote it down – now what? I’m going to go back to my friend Habakkuk and finish his quote. He said, “Write the vision, make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.”(Hab 2:2)</p>
<h3>3. Chase It</h3>
<p>The third and final point is to chase it. Always remember that it’s a marathon, not a sprint. You have to run with endurance, it&#8217;s not a one and done thing. It&#8217;s something you&#8217;re going to have to work towards on a continual basis.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t run aimlessly. That&#8217;s why you write it down, that&#8217;s why you have those reminders to keep it in front so you can continue to push forward. Chasing is an intentional action towards a purpose, towards a vision.</p>
<p>You have to be willing to put in the work that&#8217;s required to accomplish your big picture dream. I can remember training as an athlete, the pain, the sweat, and the discomfort. I didn&#8217;t like all of the running, drills, and reps, but I saw the big picture. I knew it was preparing me to chase after that cathedral, that win, that championship.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what it&#8217;s going to take for you to accomplish your big picture dream. You need to stay up late, wake up early, put in the extra time, make the sacrifices. I&#8217;ll tell you this, it may not seem like it&#8217;s fair, you may be uncomfortable, but it sure will be worth it!</p>
<h4><strong>Delayed Gratification</strong></h4>
<p>Here&#8217;s the big takeaway with chase it. Delayed gratification, not instant satisfaction. Instant satisfaction is only temporary, but delayed gratification is a lasting reward. You have to put in the work. Chasing after your big picture dream may seem like a never ending race.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to note that delayed does not mean denied. <a href="http://stevemessam.com/overcome-fear-active-faith/">Keep the faith, because faith is what you hope for through your actions, through chasing.</a> For faith without chasing, it’s dead. You have to have faith.</p>
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<p>Here’s what delayed gratification will give you. Today you’re laying bricks, tomorrow you’re enjoying your cathedral. Today you are buffing plates, but tomorrow you’re enjoying your own establishment. Today you may be riding the bench or second string, but tomorrow you will be leading your team.</p>
<p>See the big picture. Write it down. Chase after it. Don&#8217;t run away from your big picture, run after it!</p>
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<p>One key reason why some people don’t achieve their dreams is because they want changed results without changing their mindset first. You can have all the talent and skills in the world but if your mental game (mindset) isn’t right, you won’t succeed.</p>
<p><span id="more-540"></span>Having a positive mindset is a requirement for good results, success. There is essentially a 1:1 ratio between the quality of one&#8217;s thinking to the quality of their results. Good thoughts produce good results.</p>
<p>James Allen, author of &#8220;<a href="http://amzn.to/2luS79p">As a Man Thinketh</a>&#8221; wrote, &#8220;Good thoughts and actions can never produce bad results; bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results.&#8221; You will never get an apple tree from an orange seed.</p>
<p>As John Maxwell has stated, &#8220;If you don&#8217;t like the crop (<em>results</em>) you are reaping, you need to change the seed (<em>thinking</em>) you are sowing!&#8221; You reap what you sow therefore, I want to challenge you to sow a positive mindset.</p>
<p>There are three key things we will focus on when we think about our mindset.</p>
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<p><em>Good thoughts produce good results.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Good+thoughts+produce+good+results.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #1b75bb;">3 Ways Your Mindset Can Lead To Success</span></h2>
<h3>1. Receive It</h3>
<h5>Unload The Negative</h5>
<p>Our first key focus is to receive it. I believe that if you renew your mind the rest of you; your beliefs, body, and behaviors will follow. But in order to receive you have to make room for positive results by getting rid of negative thoughts.</p>
<p>What are you feeding your mind? Who are some of the people and some of the things that you listen to, that you&#8217;re watching? What are some of the external influences impacting the way you think on a daily basis? External influences can play a key role in killing your dreams.</p>
<p>External influences aren&#8217;t the only culprit to killing dreams, are you killing your dreams with your own internal negative thoughts? Maybe something negative someone has spoken into your life in the past, is spinning a lot on your internal record player?</p>
<p>I believe that those negative thoughts that you&#8217;ve received whether it be external or internal can be replaced with positive things by tuning into different programs. Listening to different podcasts or reading different books to feed you mind with things that are going to help build you up and not tear you down.</p>
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<p><em>Renew your mind and the rest of you; your beliefs, body, and behaviors will follow. </em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Renew+your+mind+and+the+rest+of+you%3B+your+beliefs%2C+body%2C+and+behaviors+will+follow.+&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h5>Advocates Over Adversaries</h5>
<p>Surround yourself with advocates and not adversaries. Think of it as supporters and not haters. Maybe even think of them as believers and not doubters.</p>
<p>People pour into us each and every day, whether it&#8217;s spiritual leaders, bosses, teachers, parents or whoever they may be. You need to make sure you surround yourself with people who have your best interests in mind.</p>
<p>Sometimes true advocates are going to tell you the truth and not everything that you want to hear. That’s completely okay.</p>
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<p><em>Surround yourself with people who have your best interests in mind.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Surround+yourself+with+people+who+have+your+best+interests+in+mind.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h5>Reject The Negative</h5>
<p>Unloading the negative is all about getting the negative out of you. Rejecting the negative is all about keeping it out of you. Think of it as a filter system.</p>
<p>Just like a fish tank has a filter system to ensure the water is at a level the fish can survive and removes the waste to make sure that the fish don’t get sick, you need to have a mental filter system.</p>
<p>Ask yourself, &#8220;Is this going to help me improve and grow or not?&#8221; If it is, receive it. If it&#8217;s not, reject it. The next time you get constructive feedback from different people in your life, it may hurt, it may not be what you want to hear. If it&#8217;s something that can help you, receive it. If not, reject it.</p>
<h3>2. Believe It</h3>
<h5>Head To Heart</h5>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t stop at receiving it and thinking it. Now you have to believe it. You have to be able to receive it in your mind before you can believe it in your heart. How can you believe something that you can&#8217;t receive?</p>
<p>Ideas don&#8217;t necessarily lead to change, beliefs do. You may have had ideas of becoming a doctor or a lawyer, but your beliefs didn&#8217;t quite match up to those thoughts. Maybe you believed that you didn&#8217;t have the financial support or resources, you were not smart enough, or what have you.</p>
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<p><em>Ideas don&#8217;t necessarily lead to change, beliefs do.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Ideas+don%27t+necessarily+lead+to+change%2C+beliefs+do.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h5>Belief Impacts Behavior</h5>
<p>Your beliefs need to match your ideas. A good example is a guy who tells himself he wants to be the heavyweight champion of the world with boxing. If his idea of being a boxer matches his beliefs &#8211; he believes that he&#8217;s going to be a champion &#8211; you&#8217;re going to see a behavior change.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s going to do some things that he wasn&#8217;t doing in the past. He&#8217;s going to make sacrifices, train like crazy, stop hanging out or doing certain things (let eating certain foods) that he would be doing if he wasn&#8217;t training to be heavyweight champion.</p>
<p>To truly say that you believe something, your belief should impact your behavior. Or another way to look at it is your behavior should reflect your belief. Ideas alone won&#8217;t get you change. Your ideas have to match your belief, which motivates you to make the change.</p>
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<p><em>To be a champion, your behavior should reflect your belief. </em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=To+be+a+champion%2C+your+behavior+should+reflect+your+belief.+&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h3>3. Achieve it</h3>
<h5>Application Is Key</h5>
<p>Now that you have it in your mind and believe it in your heart, let&#8217;s focus on the final point which is &#8220;achieve&#8221; it. We&#8217;re going to borrow some wise words from the guru himself from Star Wars, the great Yoda. &#8220;Do or do not, there is no try.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is where application comes in. Knowledge is internal, it&#8217;s what you know, but wisdom is external, it&#8217;s what you show. &#8220;Application&#8221; is the key. It&#8217;s going to take applying the right habits, behaviors, and beliefs to fuel your positive mindset into success.</p>
<p>So you receive it, you believe it, now you&#8217;re going to achieve it!</p>
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<p><em>Do or do not, there is no try. -Yoda</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Do+or+do+not%2C+there+is+no+try.+-Yoda&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h5>Power Of The Will</h5>
<p>The great Colonel Sanders from KFC heard over 1,000 no&#8217;s before he got his first yes to get his recipe approved to start a business, which we now know is a very successful franchise. It only took one yes. He had this belief in his idea of being a great business in the face of countless disappointments, his belief (mindset) and his willpower, drove him until he got that first yes.</p>
<p>When you truly believe in your ideas, willpower is what drives you to achieve it. That&#8217;s what you&#8217;re going to need in order to truly change the game with your mindset; willpower. Like the Colonel, when you believe in your dreams, failures are inevitable on your journey to success.</p>
<p>You will get some no&#8217;s, have some bumps, but you have to keep on pushing, keep on striving to achieve whatever it is that you want to achieve.</p>
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<p><em>When you believe in your dreams, failures are inevitable on the road to success.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=When+you+believe+in+your+dreams%2C+failures+are+inevitable+on+the+road+to+success.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h5>Don&#8217;t Impress; Impact</h5>
<p>When you are striving to achieve your dreams, having the right motives are important. You need to seek to impact others versus impressing them. You can&#8217;t please everybody. That&#8217;s something you just have to deal with.</p>
<p>Trying to impress folks causes us to put on an act. When you’re acting that only leads to temporary change because you’re only temporarily adapting or changing just to suit that situation.</p>
<p>But, when you’re impacting people, when you’re serving people, that leads to permanent change. That is what we’re seeking when we talk about this whole mindset game changer. We want to not just impact our lives, we want to impact those who are around us too.</p>
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<p><em>Seek to impact others, not to impress them.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Seek+to+impact+others%2C+not+to+impress+them.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/positive-mindset-good-success/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>In order to change the game, you have to get your mind right. Replace the negative thoughts with positive thoughts; receive it. Make sure that your behavior matches what you think of yourself; believe it.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, it&#8217;s either do or do not, there is no try. Let your willpower push you to impact others and not focus on impressing them; achieve it.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>What are some positive reinforcements you are finding your mind with? Please feel free to comment below.</strong></em></p>
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		<title>HOW TO FOCUS ON YOUR IMAGE AS A LEADER</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2017 11:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Your appearance, how you look and how you feel plays a big role on how your day turns out. Although your outward appearance is important, I want to challenge you to focus more on your inward image versus your outward image.</p>
<p><span id="more-350"></span>Before we jump into the three ways to focus more on your inward image vs your outward image, let&#8217;s consider these definitions of &#8220;image&#8221; first. The first one being <em>appearance</em>. Think of that as how you are <em>described</em>, or your outward image. Then we have <em>character</em>. Think of that as how you can be <em>defined</em>, or your inward image.</p>
<p>As a leader, you should focus more on your character (inward), before worrying about your appearance (outward). When a leader wakes up in the morning, their focus should be on their attitude before attire.</p>
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<p><em>When a leader wakes up in the morning, their focus should be on their attitude before attire. </em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=When+a+leader+wakes+up+in+the+morning%2C+their+focus+should+be+on+their+attitude+before+attire.+&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/focus-image-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>I&#8217;m going to challenge you to create a &#8220;tailor-made&#8221; image from the inside out because it&#8217;s going to be a key factor in you impacting and influencing others and you achieving your goals.</p>
<h2>3 Ways to Focus on Inward Image</h2>
<p>I can think of at least three &#8220;tailor-made&#8221; ways to improve your inward image and grow as a leader.</p>
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<li><strong>Alter It.</strong> This begins with attitude before attire. Before you decide what shoes, shirt, pants, blouse,  or skirt to wear, you need to decide what type of attitude you’re going to be wearing today. Are you going to be wearing a good attitude or a bad attitude? A humble attitude or an arrogant attitude? You must decide what type of attitude you’re going to wear today first before you decide your attire.</li>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Your image, your attitude, can either help or hinder your ability to impact and influence others as a leader. In order for you to alter your character, you must alter your attitude. Having the right attitude does your character good.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Having the right attitude gives your character a strong foundation to stand. In leadership, character counts. Your character is so important that it&#8217;s what God uses to truly look at you, unlike man who focuses on the outward appearance (1 Samuel 16:7).</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><a href="http://www.biography.com/people/jp-morgan-9414735#synopsis">JP Morgan</a>, one of America&#8217;s great bankers once said, &#8220;A man’s best collateral is his character.&#8221; Character counts and you can take that to the bank.</p>
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<p><em>A man’s best collateral is his character. -JP Morgan</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=A+man%E2%80%99s+best+collateral+is+his+character.+-JP+Morgan&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/focus-image-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;">2. <strong>Brand It. </strong>You are the total package inside out and your brand, your name, is your legacy as a leader. The wisest man to ever live on earth, King Solomon, once stated that &#8220;a good name is better than precious ointment and should be chosen over great riches.&#8221; (Proverbs 22:1)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">As a student athlete, I took great pride in the name that was on the front of my jersey, Central Michigan Chippewas &#8211; &#8220;Fire Up Chips!&#8221; &#8211; and the name on the back of my jersey, Messam. I bought into the values, beliefs, coaching, and all of the things tied up in that brand, Chippewas, and my name, Messam.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">As a leader always remember that your name is your brand. What do you stand for? Who do you stand for? Your beliefs, your values?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">How you <em>carry yourself</em> – your attire, your demeanor, your manners, or your appearance – and how you <em>conduct yourself</em> – your actions, your attitude, your behavior, or your character – together that’s the total package, that’s your brand, that’s your name.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Your legacy will far outlive your appearance. Leaders like Martin Luther King and Mother Teresa were great proponents of not judging the appearances of others, the skin color and all of those things, they put more value into the content of folks’ character. A leader&#8217;s character is very difficult to build up and it’s very easy to tear down.</p>
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<p><em>Character is very difficult to build up and it’s very easy to tear down.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Character+is+very+difficult+to+build+up+and+it%E2%80%99s+very+easy+to+tear+down.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/focus-image-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;">3. <strong>Check It.</strong> You’re probably asking yourself, “How in the world do I check my character? How do I see my inward image?” It’s easy for me to see my outer appearance, I can look in the mirror, I can even ask someone how I look.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Here’s how you check your character. If you check your actions, you check your character. People can’t see your heart or your inward image, but they can see what you do.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Another way is to ask someone. Ask someone how&#8217;s your attitude, have someone who you trust check you when you maybe stepping out of bounds with your attitude and actions. People may long forget what you said, even what you may have worn, but they will always remember how you made them feel.</p>
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<p><em>If you check your actions, you check your character.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=If+you+check+your+actions%2C+you+check+your+character.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/focus-image-leader/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Let&#8217;s make good character fashionable as leaders. Let&#8217;s put on love, humility, meekness, kindness, patience, and forgiveness. Let&#8217;s make all of those great qualities and characteristics fashionable. It will never go out of style.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>What Type of Attitude Did You Decide to Wear Today? Let us know in the comments. </strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 11:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
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<p class="p1">Many goals that you have for yourself will require leadership to accomplish. Leading of self and leading of others. In order for you to grow in leadership, it will require that your mindset on the topic must grow as well.</p>
<p class="p1">Starting with leading from who you are more than the position that you may or may not hold. Who you are is far more important than what you do. Which is why it is so critical that you develop&#8230;You.</p>
<p class="p1">Success as a leader requires a growth mindset. It demands approaching resistance as an opportunity rather than an obstacle. And it’s only when you stretch beyond what you thought was possible that you discover strength you never knew.</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Leadership requires some serious stretching to go beyond our current reality into endless possibilities. </span><span class="s2">The call of leadership isn’t one of comfort but of Sacrifice.</span><span class="s1"> It’s when things get uncomfortable when you must push harder, for your breakthrough is near.</span></p>
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<p><em>The call of leadership isn’t one of comfort but of Sacrifice.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=The+call+of+leadership+isn%E2%80%99t+one+of+comfort+but+of+Sacrifice.&#038;via=stevemessam&#038;related=stevemessam&#038;url=http://stevemessam.com/3-reasons-join-revolutionary-wisdom-chasers/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">Do you feel that you&#8230;</span></h4>
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<li class="li3"><em><span class="s1">Believe that with God, Anything is Possible.</span></em></li>
<li class="li3"><em><span class="s1">Succeed by Helping Others Succeed.</span></em></li>
<li class="li3"><em><span class="s1">Make a Difference Before You Make a Complaint.</span></em></li>
<li class="li3"><em><span class="s1">Lead by Example Regardless of Your Title.</span></em></li>
<li class="li3"><em><span class="s1">See Life as a Continuous Learning Experience. </span></em></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I can visualize you shaking your head “YES” continuously while reading that list. You might have thought, “Steve, you could have stopped at the first</span><span class="s1"> bullet!” If you indeed answered yes to one or all of those points, then Wisdom Chasers is the right tribe for you!</span></p>
<h3 class="p4"><span style="color: #3366ff;"><b>Here’s How Wisdom Chasers Helps You Grow As a Leader &amp; Maximize Your Influence</b></span></h3>
<h4 class="p4"><strong><span class="s1">1. Wisdom Chasers is here to help you grow UPWARD</span></strong></h4>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Spiritual Growth Leads to Leadership Growth </span></em></p>
<p class="p1">I believe that you were born with a specific call on your life to make a difference in this world. Before you were born, your creator had a plan for you. A plan so big that you can not accomplish it without him. You must have a higher calling, purpose, or faith that you rely on to help you fulfill your dreams.</p>
<p class="p1">Without growing spiritually, you are more likely to be lost, misguided and useless as a servant leader. The concept of being &#8220;Self-Made&#8221; is one of the biggest pitfalls for the next generational leader. When your EGO (edging God out) takes control, you run the risk of letting your pride hurt your influence with others.</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/20140117145819-19987-the-best-way-to-grow-as-a-leader">Jeff Giesea</a>, entrepreneur and executive coach believe, “that the best way to grow as a leader is to grow spiritually.” He believes that the more your grow spiritually, the better you can serve others. Leadership is a call to serve God and people. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Wisdom Chasers will provide content, resources, and encouragement to help you increase your influence and grow Upward as a leader.</span></em></p>
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<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>2. Wisdom Chasers is here to help you grow INWARD</strong></span></h4>
<p class="p1"><em>Personal Growth Leads to Leadership Growth</em></p>
<p class="p1">Contrary to popular belief, growth doesn&#8217;t happen overnight. Expecting to be an expert after reading one book on a topic is foolish. Growth happens over time. Personal (inward) growth is a lifelong process that requires you to invest in your development continuously.</p>
<p class="p1">It&#8217;s hard to lead others if you can&#8217;t lead yourself. Discipline, humility, integrity, character, wisdom and so many other qualities don&#8217;t develop themselves. You must be intentional in your own development in order to lead others.  If you can&#8217;t lead you, you can&#8217;t lead them.</p>
<p class="p1">Rick Warren, philanthropists and pastor stated, &#8220;The moment you stop learning you stop leading.&#8221; I have also heard that a leader is a reader. What are you doing to develop yourself on your personal time? Do you have a personal development plan?</p>
<p class="p1"><em>Wisdom Chasers will provide courses, resources, and content to help you increase your influence and grow Inward as a leader.</em></p>
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<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>3. Wisdom Chasers is here to help you grow OUTWARD</strong></span></h4>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1"> Relational Growth Leads to Leadership Growth</span></em></p>
<p class="p1">President Theodore Roosevelt once said, &#8220;People don&#8217;t care how much you know until they know how much you care.&#8221; Care more about helping people than impressing people. If you want to increase your influence with people increase your focus towards others.</p>
<p class="p1">Remember that leadership is a call to serve. As a leader, you succeed when you help others succeed. Moving people from where they are currently to where they desire to be, require relational skills; how you interact with others.</p>
<p class="p1">Your effectiveness as a leader rests heavily on how you relate to others. Expressing genuine and sincere care for others is a fast track to winning their hearts. You may have the know-how and experience to offer but if you don&#8217;t connect with their hearts, your smarts are irrelevant.</p>
<p class="p1"><em>Wisdom Chasers will provide resources, content, and courses to help you increase your influence and grow Outward as a leader.</em></p>
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